Tips for Helping Children Settle in at a New School

Starting at a new school can happen if you move house, your child goes up to a bigger school, and
also if you foster. As a parent and foster carer, there are several things you can do to help your child
adjust to their new environment and feel comfortable quicker. Here are some top tips.

Talk Positively About the Move
It’s important not to focus too much on the negatives of leaving their old school. Instead, highlight
the positives of their new school – talk about making new friends, fun activities, and learning new
things. Share your own positive school memories to get them enthusiastic. Frame it as an adventure
and opportunity, rather than something to be feared.

Familiarise Them with the New School
If possible, attend an open day or tour of the new school before the first day. Meeting their new
teacher and exploring the buildings and playground will make it all less daunting on the first day.
Point out features they’ll enjoy like art rooms, sports facilities etc. Drive or walk past the school so
they know the route.

Get Them Ready with School Supplies
Get your child excited for the new school year by taking them shopping for new school supplies like a
shiny new pencil case, water bottle and backpack. Let them pick out items they love – this will build
enthusiasm and ownership. Pack their bag together the night before so everything is ready.
If you are short term fostering, check with the child’s social worker to see what they need if they are
starting at a new school.

Connect with New Classmates
Does the school have a Facebook group or contact details for new starters? Making a friend or two
before the first day can really help settle nerves. Arrange a playdate for your child to meet up with a
fellow new pupil. If they know a friendly face it will make walking into class much easier.

Practice the Morning Routine
Establish a consistent school morning routine a few weeks in advance, practicing waking up, having
breakfast, and getting dressed and ready on time. This familiarity and structure will help them feel
relaxed and prepared on the first day. Praise them when the routine goes smoothly.

Show Confidence in Them
Let your child know you believe they’ll adapt well to their new school and make friends easily. Point
out how they’ve successfully settled into new situations before. Your confidence in them will rub off!
If you have any worries, don’t share them – be positive.

Keep Things Calm the Night Before
Don’t overload your child with anxious advice or warnings about their new school. Keep the evening
relaxed; read a story, share a bath and give them an early night. Reassure them but don’t dwell on
worries. Let them know you’re excited for them.
With these tips, you can make starting a new school a much smoother transition for your child. The
most important things are ensuring they feel secure, providing practical preparation, and giving
them lots of support and encouragement. With time, patience and a little effort, they’ll soon be
settling in happily.